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December 18, 2016January 19, 2019

HerStory: She Can Thrive

 The Herstory series profiles women who pursue their passions. Each have stepped up with courage, a message, and a willingness to share her own odyssey. 


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Written by Cheri

“Hey Cheri,” my husband Dylan says to me while on a bus through Patagonia, “I have this crazy idea.  Go with me on this . . . what would it look like for us to settle down somewhere here in South America and be a home base for backpackers to travel through us as we hunker down and raise some kids?” This was the beginning of a whole new chapter for us, but it didn’t come out of left field.

My dream since college was to ride my bike from Alaska to Ushuaia, the southernmost tip of South America.  Being a double major in Spanish and Christian Ministries, I wanted to put my faith into action by serving somewhere, somehow in Latin America.  After working as a deckhand on an international cruise liner and backpacking the Appalachian Trail, I settled (somewhat) in sunny San Diego sewing sailboat sails.  I loved it, but it was not exactly what I set out to do in life.  It was time to fan the flame of the fire I had started in wanting to bike the whole western hemisphere.  I would start by just going from Canada to Mexico.  I was telling a friend about my upcoming trip when he mentioned he knew a climbing bum living out of his truck who might be interested in biking with me.  My response: “Someone ride with me?  I’m kind of a lone ranger.  I don’t know . . .”

Long story short, we did the ride, hit it off, and got married. We were living the American dream until, once again, my desire to bike the hemisphere crept up. We quit our jobs, sold everything and got back on the bikes, starting where we left off at the Mexican border.

Family camping.JPGThis ride was different.  We decided to put our faith into action by being intentional with the purpose of our ride.  We visited churches, helped local ministries, shared the gospel and interacted with backpackers that were also traveling in South America.  11,000 miles and 400+ days of biking later, we arrived at Tierra del Fuego and knew we could not go back to America on a long-term basis.  We went back just long enough to: #1. save some money,  #2. birth a child, and  #3. go travel.  For step #3, we took six months serving churches in Thailand, India and Nepal. We went back to America, repeated steps 1-3, heading this time to Bariloche, Argentina.  We repeated the steps a final time and headed to the Middle East.

At last, it was time to hunker down and figure out a way to work smarter, not harder.  We love Jesus.  We love serving travelers through hospitality.  We love the outdoors.  How can we put our faith in action, connecting all the stepping stones we’ve hopped on and combining all our passions into one “thing?”  What does that “thing” look like?

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My happy place

A non-profit backpacker guesthouse in Patagonia, Argentina was the perfect solution.  I love the water and all the sports associated with it.  Dylan loves climbing and being in the mountains.  We both love serving backpackers and showing them our faith in word and action.  We settled into a small town in the Lakes District, the most perfect place on the planet, to start our guesthouse.  At first, we invited weary travelers to stay in our home, giving them real coffee, pancakes with maple syrup and other “feels-like-home” comforts.

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Practice paddle before crossing Nahuel Huapi

We would take them out rock climbing or kayaking, sharing our faith and hearing about their spiritual journey.  Eventually over time we rented a big house, invited volunteers to live in Christian community and put their own faith into action by serving the backpackers as well.

Being an expatriate, I’m not an Argentine, but don’t feel fully American.  It’s like not being blue, not being yellow, but totally green.  I am not only content in my greenness but thriving.  Much to the shock and horror of the locals, we eat dinner at 6 pm, not 10:30.  I home school my kids (“You do WHAT?! Is that even legal?!”).  I consume copious amounts of peanut butter (“What is this stuff that sticks to the roof of my mouth?!”).  I love all things pumpkin (“Why would you put a vegetable in your cookie and coffee?”).  I am always the one to arrive on time, painfully punctual in a non time-oriented culture.  And when conversations turn into telling jokes, I bow out before they can see the “huh?” look on my face, as Spanish humor is a tough thing to grasp. However, I love it. I’m passionate about being here, doing what we’re doing and thriving in this chapter of life.

Now, the guesthouse is thriving.  We are thriving.  I am thriving.  After years of saying to myself, “As soon as . . . (fill in the blank with words such as ‘marriage, kids, job, moving to this town’, etc.),” I can honestly say I am blooming where the Lord planted me and joyful in His calling.

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Traducción por Henry Tovar

La serie ‘Herstory: She Can’ perfila a las mujeres que persiguen sus pasiones. Cada uno ha intensificado con coraje, un mensaje y una voluntad de compartir su propia odisea.

Escrito por Cheri

“Hey Cheri”, me dice mi esposo Dylan mientras está en un autobús a través de la Patagonia, “tengo esta loca idea. Ve conmigo en esto. . . ¿Qué parecería que nos instalamos en algún lugar de Sudamérica y fuéramos una base para que los mochileros viajan a través de nosotros mientras nos acurrucamos y criamos a algunos niños? “Este fue el comienzo de un nuevo capítulo para nosotros, pero No salieron del campo izquierdo.

Mi sueño desde la universidad era montar mi bicicleta de Alaska a Ushuaia, el extremo más meridional de Sudamérica. Siendo una doctora mayor en ministerios españoles y cristianos, quería poner mi fe en acción sirviendo en alguna parte, de alguna manera en América Latina. Después de trabajar como marinero en un crucero de crucero internacional y mochilero del Camino de los Apalaches, me instalé (algo) en las soleadas velas de San Diego cosiendo veleros. Me encantó, pero no fue exactamente lo que me propuse hacer en la vida. Había llegado el momento de encender la llama del fuego que había comenzado a querer montar en bicicleta todo el hemisferio occidental. Comenzaría por ir de Canadá a México. Le estaba contando a un amigo acerca de mi próximo viaje cuando mencionó que sabía que un vagabundo de escalada vivía fuera de su camión que podría estar interesado en andar en bicicleta conmigo. Mi respuesta: “¿Alguien monta conmigo? Soy una especie de guardabosques solitario. No lo sé . . . ”

Larga historia corta, hicimos el viaje, lo golpeamos y nos casamos. Estábamos viviendo el sueño americano hasta que, una vez más, mi deseo de andar en bici por el hemisferio se arrastró. Dejamos nuestros trabajos, vendimos todo y volvimos a las bicicletas, comenzando donde dejamos en la frontera mexicana.

Family camping.JPGEste viaje fue diferente. Decidimos poner nuestra fe en acción siendo intencional con el propósito de nuestro paseo. Visitamos iglesias, ayudamos a los ministerios locales, compartimos el evangelio e interactuamos con mochileros que también estaban viajando en América del Sur. 11.000 millas y más de 400 días de ciclismo más tarde, llegamos a Tierra del Fuego y sabíamos que no podíamos regresar a América a largo plazo. Volvimos lo suficiente para: # 1. Ahorrar algo de dinero, # 2. Nacimiento de un niño, y # 3. ir de viaje. Para el paso # 3, tomamos seis meses sirviendo iglesias en Tailandia, India y Nepal. Volvimos a América, repitiendo los pasos 1-3, dirigiéndonos esta vez a Bariloche, Argentina. Repetimos los pasos una última vez y nos dirigimos al Oriente Medio.

Por fin, era hora de agacharse y encontrar una manera de trabajar más inteligente, no más difícil. Amamos a Jesús. Nos encanta servir a los viajeros a través de la hospitalidad. Nos encanta el aire libre. ¿Cómo podemos poner nuestra fe en la acción, conectando todos los peldaños que hemos saltado y combinando todas nuestras pasiones en una “cosa”? ¿Cómo es esa “cosa”?

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Mi lugar feliz

Una casa de huéspedes para mochileros sin fines de lucro en la Patagonia, Argentina fue la solución perfecta. Me encanta el agua y todos los deportes asociados con ella. A Dylan le encanta escalar y estar en las montañas. Ambos nos encanta servir mochileros y mostrarles nuestra fe en la palabra y la acción. Nos instalamos en una pequeña ciudad en el distrito de los lagos, el lugar más perfecto del planeta, para comenzar nuestra casa de huéspedes. Al principio, invitamos a los viajeros cansados a quedarse en nuestra casa, dándoles café real, panqueques con jarabe de arce y otras comodidades “se siente como en casa”.

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Practica la paleta antes de cruzar Nahuel Huapi

Los sacaremos de escalada o de kayak, compartiendo nuestra fe y oyendo acerca de su viaje espiritual. Eventualmente, con el tiempo, alquilamos una casa grande, invitamos a los voluntarios a vivir en comunidad cristiana y poner su propia fe en acción sirviendo a los mochileros también.

Siendo expatriado, no soy argentino, pero no me siento totalmente americano. Es como no ser azul, no ser amarillo, pero totalmente verde. No sólo estoy contento en mi verdor, sino prosperando. Mucho para el shock y el horror de los lugareños, cenamos a las 6pm, no 10:30. En casa, la escuela de mis hijos (“¿Qué haces? ¿Es eso incluso legal ?!”). Consumo cantidades copiosas de mantequilla de cacahuete (“¿Qué es este material que se pega en el techo de mi boca ?!”) Me encanta todas las cosas de calabaza (“¿Por qué pondría una verdura en su galleta y café?”). Siempre el que llega a tiempo, dolorosamente puntual en una cultura no orientada al tiempo.Y cuando las conversaciones se convierten en decir chistes, me inclino antes de que puedan ver la mirada “¿eh?” En mi cara, como el humor español es una cosa difícil Pero me encanta, me apasiona estar aquí, hacer lo que estamos haciendo y prosperar en este capítulo de la vida.

Ahora, la casa de huéspedes está prosperando. Estamos floreciendo. Estoy prosperando. Después de años diciendo a mí mismo, “Tan pronto como. . . (Llenar el espacio en blanco con palabras como “matrimonio, hijos, trabajo, mudarse a esta ciudad”, etc), “Puedo decir honestamente que estoy floreciendo donde el Señor me plantó y alegre en su llamado.

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  • Cliff Rawley December 18, 2016 at 8:54 pm Reply

    Thanks for this inspiring true story of a young woman of great faith and courage.

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